Perhaps this is too personal, but my grandfather passed away this week. It reminded me that we all go through tough times, and you aren't alone if something similar happens to you. What do you do when there is a family emergency?
- Tell your professors, especially if there are looming deadlines. Some are nicer than others. Be sure to talk to (or email) them. See if you can work out an arrangement for turning work in/ exams. Some will allow generous deadlines, others will require you to abide by the syllabus.
- If a professor is not budging, go to the college. However, this needs extreme circumstances, and I've heard requirements of death certificates and such. Hopefully a doctor's note will work.
- On- campus counseling is available and FREE! Don't be ashamed. I've had to go to counseling myself. For non-urgent matters, go to CAPS's website. To request an emergency appointment, go here. There is also a number to call for after-hours.
This is often something that people don't discuss, and therefore, don't know how to deal with. Use the resources the university has to offer; your school fees cover the cost.